Building Bonds: Couple’s Heartfelt Fostering Story

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In 2019, Kerry and Darren became approved foster carers with Nexus Fostering and welcomed two siblings, aged 10 and 14. Kerry recalled the first night the siblings arrived.

"The initial days were daunting, but I vividly remember what they wore and how they looked sitting on the sofa. I thought about what they had endured as we became their eleventh home, and I could only imagine how frightened they must have felt.”

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With over 860 children in care in Gloucestershire, and numbers rising by 11% each year, the need for foster carers is urgent. Reflecting on her experience, Kerry added, "It’s incredible to know I've played a part in their growth and will always be part of their lives. I truly love fostering and wouldn’t change it for anything."

"In our family, we have three different surnames, and when our foster children first arrived, we explained that a family's foundation isn't defined by sharing the same surname—it's built on love, listening, compassion, care, and learning." Kerry believes fostering has instilled a deep sense of gratitude, empathy, and compassion in their birth children, strengthening family bonds. "Our birth children understand how fortunate they are and have become very protective of their foster siblings," she added.

"We've had incredible moments as a family. They've learned to climb, kayak, and participate in Scouting. We've sent our eldest off to prom and celebrated her A Level results, while helping the youngest try new things and face her fears has also been a highlight. Now, after helping their eldest foster child move on to university, they are preparing to welcome another child into their home. "We’re both excited and nervous," said Kerry, "but I’m eager for the new journey ahead."

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The couple encourages locals to consider becoming foster carers. "I would highly recommend it if you're looking for a rewarding experience in every way. Nexus Fostering creates a family atmosphere, offering excellent training and support, and they include our biological children in outings and events for everyone."

Interested in becoming a foster carer? Visit their next fostering drop in sessions: Tuesday November 5th or Tuesday 3rd December, from 10 AM to 12 noon at their local Gloucester office, visit www.nexusfostering.couk or call 01452 491 980.

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