Tributes have been paid to ex-cadet Ross Gardiner, who was husband to Demi, following his tragic death

Ex-cadet Ross Gardiner has tragically died, leaving behind his wife Demi and their dog Tara. A GoFundMe page has been set up which reads: “Hi everyone. Well what can I say, our beautiful Demi lost her lovely husband Ross to cancer.

“What we want to do as a crew community is set up a trust fund of some sort for Ross and her dog Tara so she can be looked after and treated like the princess they both love. Demi is the most caring, selfless person you will ever meet so please let’s give a token of our love for her, Ross and Tara….”

The Facebook page for 1 NI ACF wrote: “It is with deep sadness that we remember ex-cadet RSM Ross Gardiner, who passed away last Thursday after a courageous battle with cancer. Ross was not only a remarkable individual but also an inspiration to many during his time with the Army Cadet Force.

“Ross was a shining example of dedication and leadership within the Army Cadet Force. He began his cadet journey at the Drumahoe Detachment, B Company, (cap badged The Royal Irish Regiment) where he quickly distinguished himself through hard work and commitment.

“His ascent to the rank of Cadet Regimental Sergeant Major marked a significant milestone, showcasing not only his abilities but also his passion for the cadet experience.

“As the UK’s Champion Army Cadet, Ross underwent rigorous training that tested his skills in various areas, including leadership, first aid, fieldcraft, and weaponcraft. His achievements were a testament to his resilience and determination, and he was known for his humility despite his accolades.

“Ross often shared how the cadet program had a profound impact on his life, boosting his confidence and instilling valuable life skills.

“One of the most beautiful connections formed during his cadet years was with Demi, who served as the Cadet Company Sergeant Major in D Company. Their shared experiences in the ACF not only fostered a deep bond but also blossomed into a lifelong partnership.

“Together, they exemplified the spirit of the cadet movement, inspiring those around them.

“Even after officially leaving the cadets, Ross maintained strong ties to the community, reflecting his love for the camaraderie and experiences he shared.

“In remembering Ross, we also recognise the supportive role of Demi, who stood by him through thick and thin. Their mutual dedication to service and leadership has inspired many, and their story is a testament to the lasting friendships formed within the cadet program.

“Ross's legacy will live on in the hearts of those he influenced, and he will be remembered not only for his accomplishments but for the kindness and positivity he brought to every interaction. His passing leaves a significant void in the lives of his family, friends, and the entire Army Cadet Force community.

“As we honor his memory, let us remember the joy he brought to those around him and the legacy he leaves behind. Our thoughts and prayers are with wife Demi, his family, and all his friends during this difficult time.”

Rest in peace, Ross. You will be greatly missed by all in the 1st (NI) Battalion Army Cadet Force.

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